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    Getting Out of An Abusive Relationship

    Getting out of an abusive or violent relationship isn’t easy. Maybe you’re still hoping that things will change or you’re afraid of what your partner will do if he discovers you’re trying to leave. Whatever your reasons, you probably feel trapped and helpless. But help is available. There are many resources available for abused and battered women, including crisis hotlines, shelters—even job training, legal services, and childcare. You deserve to live free of fear. Start by reaching out.

    How can you get out of an abusive relationship?
    Why doesn’t she just leave? It’s the question many people ask when they learn that a woman is being battered and abused. But if you are in an abusive relationship, you know that it’s not that simple. Ending an important relationship is never easy. It’s even harder when you’ve been isolated from your family and friends, psychologically beaten down, financially controlled, and physically threatened.
    If you’re trying to decide whether to stay or leave, you may be feeling confused, uncertain, frightened, and torn. One moment, you may desperately want to get away, and the next, you may want to hang on to the relationship. Maybe you even blame yourself for the abuse or feel weak and embarrassed because you’ve stuck around in spite of it. Don’t be trapped by confusion, guilt, or self-blame. The only thing that matters is your safety.

    If you are being abused, remember:
    You are not to blame for being battered or mistreated.
    You are not the cause of your partner’s abusive behavior.
    You deserve to be treated with respect.
    You deserve a safe and happy life.
    You are not alone. There are people waiting to help.

    If you need immediate assistance, call 911 or your local emergency service.
    For domestic violence helplines and shelters, click here.
    If you’re a man in an abusive relationship, read Help for Abused Men.

    This article was pulled from the helpguide.org